This note, written by 11-year-old Andy, breaks our hearts

 

It’s a desperate plea for love and acceptance. And we know it won’t be answered.

 

Andy and his older brother Tim so badly want to be part of a family. They were only four and five years old respectively when their father died and their mother abandoned them.

 

At first, they went to live with their great aunt, who was already caring for their older sister. But the old lady couldn’t cope with the boys. Especially Tim, who has ADHD. He was always in trouble at school, hanging out with much older children and getting up to all sorts of mischief.

 

So, the boys were placed in our care. And we began the process of working with other family members who might be willing to take them on.

 

Over the years, they have had contact with their step sister, great aunt and aunt. But each time a family member takes them ‘home’ for a weekend or over the holidays, the boys are brought back early because of their disruptive behaviour.

 

And each time they return to our Centre, Andy and Tim feel more devastated and rejected.

 

We believe that whenever a family member shows interest in them, Tim deliberately acts up to ‘test’ them. He feels that if they really love him, they will put up with his behaviour.

 

But the sad reality is that these families have problems of their own, and can’t provide the attention and support the boys need. So for now, Tim and Andy will remain in our care.

 

It’s up to us to provide the love and acceptance they crave, so they can develop into secure, confident and happy young people. And we need your help, please.

 

Please consider supporting us with a monthly donation to Sponsor a Child.

 

Your contribution of R1 245 pays for food for a month for one child. R550 covers school fees, sports equipment and transport, while R250 helps towards clothing and trips to the doctor or dentist. Smaller gifts are also received with great gratitude; they help pay for items like soap, toothpaste and shoe polish, which are always needed.

 

Every cent we receive is precious. Added together, these contributions make all the difference to a neglected, abused or abandoned child’s future. So please, will you join in and make your donation now?

Durban Child & Youth Care Centre

children deserve to be safe & happy

In a perfect world, every child would grow up in a loving home – with enough food, clothing and opportunities to play and learn.

But it’s not a perfect world.

The Durban Child & Youth Care Centre strives to give children who’ve been orphaned, abandoned, neglected or abused, another chance of a happy childhood. We provide a safe home, all the daily necessities, education and encouragement to help them develop into healthy, well-adjusted kids.

Wherever possible, we work with the family to enable children to return home. Because every child needs a place to belong.

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SOUTH AFRICA’S CHILDREN ARE HURTING

In mid 2018, South Africa was home to 19.7 million children under the age of 18
Of these:

million orphans

million dependent on grants

thousand live in
child only households

%

live below
the poverty line

HOW WE HELP

 

 

 

 

 

 

OUR PROGRAMMES

RESIDENTIAL CARE

OUR PROGRAMMES

RESIDENTIAL CARE

Up to 60 boys and girls, between the ages of 2-18, live in three units. They attend local schools and receive counseling, remedial teaching, therapy and other activities designed to encourage them to develop skills, talents and confidence.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

OUR PROGRAMMES

AMAQHAWE CENTRE

OUR PROGRAMMES

AMAQHAWE CENTRE

This is a home for 14 children suffering from chronic life threatening illnesses (mainly HIV) and disabilities. We focus on their emotional, spiritual and medical care. Wherever possible, families are encouraged to be involved.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

OUR PROGRAMMES

COMMUNITY SUPPORT

OUR PROGRAMMES

COMMUNITY SUPPORT

Professional support to other child & youth care centres, the National Association of Child Care Workers, Regional Youth Forum, etc.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

OUR PROGRAMMES

RESIDENTIAL CARE

OUR PROGRAMMES

RESIDENTIAL CARE

Up to 60 boys and girls, between the ages of 2-18, live in three units. They attend local schools and receive counseling, remedial teaching, therapy and other activities designed to encourage them to develop skills, talents and confidence.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

OUR PROGRAMMES

AMAQHAWE CENTRE

OUR PROGRAMMES

AMAQHAWE CENTRE

This is a home for 14 children suffering from chronic life threatening illnesses (mainly HIV) and disabilities. We focus on their emotional, spiritual and medical care. Wherever possible, families are encouraged to be involved.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

OUR PROGRAMMES

COMMUNITY SUPPORT

OUR PROGRAMMES

COMMUNITY SUPPORT

Professional support to other child & youth care centres, the National Association of Child Care Workers, Regional Youth Forum, etc.

 

Play your part

Although we receive a government subsidy for each child, this is nowhere near the real cost of caring.
Your donation helps provide food, shelter, education, medical care and the therapeutic programmes
these children need to overcome their unhappy past and develop into confident, happy young people.

 

Make a donation

OTHER WAYS TO HELP

Gifts in Kind

We appreciate donations of non-perishable food items, clothing and toiletries. Please contact us for a list of our most pressing needs.

Get a MySchool Card

Choose the Durban Child & Youth Care Centre as the beneficiary of your MySchool card and help raise funds every time you swipe the card.

Volunteer

Helping with homework, mentoring older children and sewing clothes are just some of the ways you can make a difference.

Maintenance

Provide a regular monthly service like removal of garden refuse, or general maintenance like replacing light bulbs and tap washers.

Fundraise for us

Run a marathon and ask your friends to sponsor you … or ask for donations to DCYCC in lieu of birthday or Christmas gifts.

Set up a monthly payment

Even small donations – made regularly every month by debit order or recurring EFT – add up to a whole lot of help.

Leave a bequest

One sentence in your will could make a lasting impact on a child’s life – and costs you nothing right now!

Sponsor a child

Sponsor a child

Contribute towards the cost of caring for one child, with a regular monthly donation towards food, clothing, education and medical bills.

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