Helping a child overcome abuse and trauma takes time

It’s not just about providing a safe and loving home, plenty of good, nutritious food, and the chance to go to school. Those things are crucial, of course. But sometimes the hurt goes so deep, or the anger burns so strongly, that it can take years of encouragement, reassurance and therapy to repair the damage.

That’s why we are so grateful to our Child Sponsors. Caring people like you, who make a monthly commitment to help support an abused, orphaned or neglected child admitted to our Centre.

When you Sponsor a Child you’re saying, “You can depend on me. I will be here for you, for as long as it takes.”

This is the kind of belief and encouragement these kids need to succeed. Two years ago, Nelly and Sarah were really battling at school. Both girls were sexually abused in the past. Nelly by her own half-brother. Instead of getting the support she needed from her mother, she was given the brush off … as if it was her fault. Her mother’s betrayal affected her deeply, leaving her angry, emotional and depressed.

Sarah’s abuser was a neighbour and she was placed in care for her protection. Shortly afterwards, she lost her beloved grandfather, who was her pillar of strength. She became very bitter and angry, which manifested as bad behaviour and the inability to make friends with the other kids.

Both girls struggled to feel any interest in their schoolwork. But gradually, with lots of patience and love, their attitude changed. And at the end of last year, both passed their exams with flying colours. Nelly has even decided she wants to be a teacher.

Listening to her speak about her dreams for the future, filled with newfound confidence and hope, reminds us of the importance of consistent, long-term support, guidance and care. It really does have the power to turn a child’s life around completely. That’s why we hope you’ll make the decision today to Sponsor a Child.

As little as R100 or R200 per month makes a difference. Over the course of a year, it adds up to a wonderful investment in a child’s life. If you can give more … R500 or R1000 monthly … you’ll play a really significant role in a child’s recovery.

Any amount you give will be carefully and wisely spent to help our kids grow into strong, healthy and happy adults. And makes you a hero in our eyes. Thank you for caring.