Youth Day celebrations

Youth Day celebrations

Youth Day

Youth Day, on 16 June, saw our young people participating in a special programme in our Hall. They took turns in performing individually and in groups with a variety of song, dance, readings  and drama. Grateful thanks to Feed the Nation and Pick ‘n Pay for sponsoring eats and juice to round off the day.

Meanwhile our teenage boys enjoyed a friendly soccer game at Valley View Place of Safety. Special thanks to Glenwood Superspar for their kind donation of gift vouchers to the value of R800, which allowed for us to buy snack packs for the boys to enjoy on their trip.

 

Youth Day Donations

Giving back to the community, thanks to the Hollywood Bets Foundation

Giving back to the community, thanks to the Hollywood Bets Foundation

Flood Relief

As a registered Child and Youth Care Centre, we are accustomed to being on the receiving end of charity. So it was a real joy for us to be able to give back for a change.

This came about when the Hollywood Bets Foundation selected DCYCC as one of their outreach partners for the  Hope is Power – Disaster Relief campaign. Launched in response to the recent floods in KZN, the campaign focused on getting help to where it was most needed. We received R30  000 to help families of our children (past and present) who lost their homes and possessions. We were able to visit these families, bringing much needed gifts of food, blankets, drinking water and toiletries.

Thank you Hollywood Bets Foundation for this wonderful donation – and for choosing us to be one of your outreach partners!

Broken crayons can still colour

Broken crayons can still colour

Nokhanyo graduates from university

An uplifting story from one of our ‘old girls’, Nokhanyo, pictured above on the day she graduated with her Master’s degree in Population Studies

When Nokhanyo was 6 years old, her mother died, leaving 5 children behind. Their father then became an alcoholic and abandoned the children. They had nothing but sorrow and poverty. But Nokhanyo tried her best to love and care for her siblings.

Their world changed for the better when they were placed at the Durban Child and Youth Care Centre. For the fist time Nokhanyo experienced how it feels to be loved and nurtured.

“I didn’t have parents, yes,” she says. “But I went to one of the most prestigious schools. And the love and care I received gave me the gift of childhood. I had the freedom to dream, and to believe in myself and the wealth of potential within me.”

Heart warming love and support

“I’ll never forget the love and congratulatory messages I received from the office staff and child care workers when I was awarded trophies and merit certificates in primary school. They were so heart-warming. I also remember my first laptop and a R1000 gift voucher I received from a lovely sponsor, in recognition of my hard work.

As a result of the support and opportunities I received, I matriculated from Durban Girls’ High School in 2014 with a bachelor’s pass and two distinctions.”

While many kids from her high school had options, Nokhanyo knew she had to get the best results in order to go to university. And, knowing that her siblings were being well cared for allowed her to concentrate on her studies.

First in her family to matriculate

She was the first in her family to complete matric and to attend university.
She wanted to be a Psychologist, and was accepted to study at the University of KwaZulu-Natal.

After graduating with a Bachelor of Social Sciences in Psychology and Sociology, she did her Master’s in Population Studies. Now aged 27, Nokhanyo has this advice for today’s youngsters at DCYCC:

“I learnt that life doesn’t give you what you deserve but what you fight for. We might come from poor, broken families and our parents might have failed us. But wealthy, stable, united families can come out of us. Broken crayons still colour and give meaning to a drawing. No matter how broken we may have been in the past, the little we still have left in us can change our lives for the better.”

Message from the Director – Mandy Goble

Message from the Director – Mandy Goble

Human capacit for burden

How does one even begin to comment on all that has happened over the past few months? The devastating flood of April will certainly remain etched in the minds of all in KZN for decades to come.

We were blessed that our children, staff, and their families survived the ordeal with minimal loss and damage to property and personal belongings.
And although our grounds took a beating, our aged but solid buildings stood firm against the torrential rains.

We were however saddened to hear of the passing of a woman who spent her childhood in our care. Over the past 30 years, she had built a successful career and life. But in the early hours of that fateful day, she lost her life when her home collapsed on top of her, her partner and her son. I recall her as a feisty 16-year-old, who faced her truth with courage, and never used her years spent in the Centre as an excuse for not giving her best.

Nokhanyo’s story is another such testimony to resilience in the face of seemingly insurmountable difficulty and challenge. We know there are many more stories like this still to come. This – and the amazing generosity of our friends and supporters – is what encourages us to face tomorrow with hope.

Thank you!

Mandy Goble – Director Durban & Child Youth Care Centre

Happy Youth Day

Happy Youth Day

“We, the people of South Africa, have journeyed far since the long lines of our first democratic election on 27 April 1994, when we elected a government for us all. We began to tell a new story then. We have lived and renewed that story along the way. Now in 2030 we live in a country which we have remade. We have created a home where everyone feels free yet bounded to others, where everyone embraces their full potential. We are proud to be a community that cares. We have received the mixed legacy of inequalities in opportunity and in where we have lived, but we have agreed to change our narrative of conquest, oppression, resistance…” The vision statement of our country’s National Development Plan speaks about how far we’ve come as people of South Africa and the endless possibilities of a remade country with incredible opportunities that could be realised.

Despite the massive challenges, we continue to face as a country, as we celebrate Youth Day on June 16th, we MUST give focus to the young people of our country.  Any possibility of a “remade” country depends on them. South Africa’s future depends on them. Our young people must be thought that fairness and equality does matter. They should be taught that crime and corruption is not and should never be accepted as the norm.

Achieving the goals of the NDP by 2030 is a tall order, but not impossible.  The bottom-line is that all of us; children, youth, adults, senior citizens, and government officials, of our beautiful country can choose to make this vision a reality.  We need a reconditioned mindset to envisage the realisation of a remade South Africa. We must think, speak, and do things differently – doing for self-gain must be put to death – in all things; our words, actions and deeds, consideration should be given to the many ways in which we can positively impact circumstances for not only ourselves but others around us as well.

We cannot exercise control over others, but we do have control over ourselves.  We can choose to be positive examples for the young people around us. We can be influencers of change! Raising a child requires giving attention to their overall growth and development at every phase of their lives. It’s easier when you are assisting a child, however a little more work is needed to help youth develop and grow into mature, independent, and upright members of our community. External factors may affect them, but when sound foundations have been established, it won’t change who they are.  Let us determine to be a catalyst for social change.

The following is an interesting article on social influence on positive youth development: A developmental neuroscience perspective. An insight in emerging evidence highlighting how social influences from both peers and family can play a positive role in adolescents’ adjustment in society. Click here for the full article https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6345387/

Source: National Library of Medicine (This work was supported by the National Institutes of Health (R01DA039923 to Telzer) and the National Science Foundation (SES 1459719 to Telzer).