Recent years have seen an increase in the reporting of incidents of crimes against children, especially of sexual abuse. Should we be alarmed? Well, I am certain that we would all agree that children being hurt in any shape or form should just not be happening, but the reality is that it does. So, the increase in reported incidents requires interrogation. Opinion from experts in the field suggest that the increase is not necessarily because more incidents are happening, but rather because more incidents are being reported. This is progress! As child protection policies take root in practice, and levels of awareness of the processes and procedures for reporting increase, more of the incidents that take place surface, and can be addressed.
One of the myths of gender-based violence (GBV) is that females are more likely to be victims than males, however more and more data reveals that males are just as vulnerable. “Around the world, 1 in 13 boys experiences sexual abuse. Many more are exploited or exposed to inappropriate sexual materials. These experiences have long-term negative consequences for boys’ health and wellbeing, and the effects can be felt throughout all of society.” – Blue Umbrella Day Global Campaign 2024
Acting against sexual abuse of children; girls and boys, is crucial for the creation of a safer and more just society for children to live in. These are some ways you can make a meaningful contribution to this end:
- If a child opens up and shares his/her experience of violence, it is essential that you provide a safe, caring, and non-judgemental space for them to be heard.
- You can start an age-appropriate conversation with children about gender roles, stereotypes, consent, and body autonomy; and link this to their basic human rights.
- Find out what services, i.e. counselling, helplines, for child victims/survivors are available in your community.
- If you witness or are aware of a child being sexually harassed, document evidence discreetly. Report the incident to the authorities, ensuring that the child’s safety and well-being is prioritized.
- Speak up when you witness inappropriate behaviour and encourage others to do the same.
- Let people in your circle of influence know that you take a firm stance against sexual abuse against children. Use your voice to advocate for change, whether through conversations, social media, or community actions.
Our blog post for this month is in support of the Blue Umbrella Day Global Campaign led by the Family For Every Child alliance and its member organisations. Blue Umbrella Day aims to tackle the issue of sexual violence affecting boys, and to improve support and services for boys who have been affected by it already. Visit www.blueumbrelladay.org to learn more and take part.
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